Making the decision to file for bankruptcy may be one of the biggest, most important and most difficult decsions you make in your life. How to file personal bankruptcy is actually the fairly “easy” part, as it is a legal process that is dictated by federal and/or state bankruptcy laws. However, how to handle the emotional factors, the financial factors, the ethical factors and other factors can be far more complex, and don’t always have a cut and dry process that you can navigate. In fact, for most of the “personal” side of personal bankruptcy, you will have to be strong, be confident in your decision and have a great support network around you like your spouse, or even friends and family, if you wish to disclose your decision with loved ones.
In an earlier post, I wrote about some of the first steps to bankruptcy that you need to think through and walk through before making the decision to move forward with your bankruptcy. After reconciling those issues, you will need to make contact with a personal bankruptcy attorney to set up your initial consultation. Most personal bankruptcy attorneys will offer a free consultation, you need to come prepared to make the most of this free information.
Also, remember, the only way to truly make the attorney/client relationship work to your benefit is to be honest and detailed. First of all, you need to be honest with your attorney about your debts and assets as you could face fraud charges if you do not fully disclose your information accurately to the court. Secondly, your attorney is your advocate, and you need to give the honest and clear picture to your attorney so they can best counsel and represent you. Lastly, this is not the time to feel ashamed, or guilty in some way that you have found yourself in this situation. This is the time to take action, and honest and clear action is the way to get you a fresh start.
Here are some steps in how to best prepare for your consultation:
1. You should have your last two months of paystubs, or more if you have had a recent salary change, change in income due to downsizing or job change. You need to be able to assess your current salary or wages, if they have fluctuated recently, and what you anticipate your income to be in the near future. Your income must include every source, including any side businesses or other income streams.
2. You should have your last two years of income tax returns.
3. You should bring in a file of organized statements of your debts, or a spreadsheet if you currently manage your debts on a spreadsheet program. I would recommend having your statements divided up as:
Home ownership debts, like your mortgage, second mortgage, rent, etc.
Car payments or leases
Credit card debts
Business debts, if you are a small business owner
Student Loans
Medical debts
Miscellaneous debts, if you make payments on a boat, RV, etc.
You will need a clear picture of what your minimum monthly payments are, what your outstanding balances are, etc. You should be able to demonstate clearly if and how you are unable to manage the total of those payments. This is where often consumers need to dig deep, deal with all of their debt in the light of day and honestly face the facts.
I also recommend that you have them specifically divided up as you will need to speak to the debts that are related to items that you need to survive, like your home, or your car. The other debts you may have to live without, and you may actually have to relinquish those items. You will most likely have to walk away from those credit cards, and depending upon the bankruptcy laws of your state, you could stand to lose a boat or another luxury type item on which you still owe money.
4. You should have a spreadsheet or some kind of statement that lists your key and significant assets. Your assets may include:
Equity in your home(s)
Vehicles you own outright
All bank statements with current balances
401k and other investment accounts
High value art, jewelry, antiques, high end fashion accessories, etc.
Timeshares or other vacation-type memberships that you pay each year
Additional vehicles, “toys” (such as RV, motorcycle, ATV, boat, jet ski, etc.)
Fractional ownership of any large ticket items such as a jet, plane, boat, timeshare, etc.
Trust funds, family trusts
In many cases, many consumers do not have high ticket assets to disclose, however, you should do your best to be honest and specific. You do not want to run the risk of any kind of disclosure in the bankruptcy process that could look fraudulent or otherwise.
5. You should also have a file that details your monthly utility payments and other reasonable monthly expenses. Again, creating a spreadsheet of what you pay for groceries, gas, utilities, medical expenses, insurance expenses, clothing, etc. is important information for you and your attorney. Adding your basic monthly expenses to your debt load will bring a clear picture to you and your attorney regarding a potential bankruptcy.
6. Have a file that includes any other obligations and payments that you make, to include:
Child support
Spousal support
Taxes, if you are on a payment plan with the IRS or pay your taxes on any other schedule
Payments for personal loans from family and or friends
The bottom line is that once you have cleared the hurdle of the first steps to bankruptcy, it is time to get to the honest and brutal facts of your finances. Let’s face it, all too many consumers juggle there expenses and income from month to month, not always really realizing what goes into each and every expense and dollar that they spend.
And, truly, if the brutal facts of your financial picture is overwhelming, unmanageable and making you literally and figuratively sick, bankruptcy may be your only options. There are alternatives to bankruptcy, and you may be able to avoid bankruptcy, and with the most detailed information you can provide to your personal bankruptcy attorney, you can figure out truly what the best option and decision is for you, for your family, and for your financial present and future. The past is just that, the past. Focus on the future to create the path on how you are going to move forward.
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